And So It Is

From a place near the end of the movie:

"Each one of us here today will at one time in our lives look upon a loved one who is in need and ask the same question: 'we are willing to help, Lord, but what, if anything, is needed?' For it is true that we can seldom help those closest to us. Either we don't know what part of ourselves to give or, more often than not, the part we have to give is not wanted. And so it is those we live with and love and should know who elude us. But we can still love them -- we can love completely without complete understanding."